Thursday, November 29, 2007

about the concepts of love....(part-I)


There is something in this world which makes everyman to live. Only a few lives for themselves and the rest have a guiding force, may be they are living for their family or for someone who are dependent on them. Why do others live for themselves? May be because they have a strong determination to be fame or to do something for this world. But in most cases, the reason is not this. It is because they are optimistic in everything and enjoys the world in every aspect. Yes, today the generation must be like that. are these the only driving force that leads life? Let us go on.

Think of a nursery boy, for him the world is colorful, with fragrance and with tones of happiness. He is someone who enjoys this world in all aspect. He learns more than ABCD..., he learns to make friends, to share what he has with others. He is just new to this world and this world is new to him. He has an innocence which we can see on looking his eyes. We can see not any grave grief but it is full of happiness. While seeing these little children, I still remember of my school days, that age was something different from these days, It was an age I could share everything-my lunch, sweets with everyone; I was able to make friends with everyone-with those rose flowers, ants, cats, dogs. The view of world was different-it was a world where the lion and tiger spoke of the joys of jungle, it was where the dreams had no limits and the curiosity inside the little mind is beyond explanations. It was a period when I was close to this nature and nature was truly a friend. I still the rainy seasons of those childhood days. Now the rain is not cool as it was, it lacks that tone; now I could never again walk through those roads with that colorful umbrella and that small bag hanging on my shoulders and may be with that old girl friend to make some fun on the way back home and to take a leave from the school next day for a cold. The world has changed, both those roads, our mind and our appearance. Now nature accepted her a girl and I myself is now a miniature adult. Though our minds changed still I could see that innocence and charm of childhood in her smiles.

Later as the time went on…..we changed and still this nature is the same. We are now high school students. Remember that we are now students and not children. It was the time when we realized ourselves. We changed both physically and mentally. We are now chocolate boys and girls. We are now rational thinkers and thoughts of mind were almost revolting. It was where ideas played a role and the mind could not bend its knees before anyone. It was a period of life when love got another dimension. Now for us love meant what it is first born in the mind of a boy and a girl. It was a time when my girl friend turned a beautiful girl. She is never as innocent as before though she was a true friend. But still we could share our joys and sorrows, but it was not as it was before. It was a period of time when we were in need of good friends. Life is never the same again. Our joys and entertainment was not in that cartoon films. We now speak of love which is first born in the mind of a boy and girl and try to make love with someone. But it is not that girl who is my friend, because now we realized how intense our relationship was. Still I seeked the help of her, she is like a sister to myself and I could send her to know the whereabouts of that girl who took my heart. I believed what she said, because she is not merely a friend, but she was a sister, a mother and true well wisher of mine. She was frank to say me whatever she felt of those girls, she sometimes said you cannot adjust with that one or sometimes that a particular girl is not suiting you. She was a true guide, she corrected me whenever I was wrong and was very helpful-may be to help me in my studies, sharing me her lunch and many things I cannot say. I think everyone of this age needs someone like this to say everything. It developed in me a sense of brother-sister relationship and because of that I could not see a girl any different from her. She once said to me, “you must see my eyes in every girl you see and you will not be wrong”. How can I explain these things? What was the kind of love developed between us? She once asked me in those last days of our standard X, “can you live without seeing me?” I felt it a difficult question. Now what shall I say her? I thought of it for days remembering every details I could. It was not a love which others thought. It was purely a brother-sister relationship Now she is not with me. The sorrow of separation is beyond words. But I want to prove that the love which is born in the minds of a girl and a boy is not always what our society may think. It is what they can’t understand, because they cannot comedown to our angle and think. The society think of our love merely born out of this fascinating age. I feel pity of this era that it could not but accept us simply as friend. Do you still call them modern? Or if this is going to be modernism, then I like to be in the past age.

Later it is the time for this free bird to think of life and to make a living. I call not this a battle of survival, not a struggle for life, but an effort to make an earning and to make this life beautiful as never before. But is it money which is going to help me? I don’t know why men consider money a factor. But I think doing a job you like, doing something for the society, helping this humanity with the knowledge you got and living with a partner whom you choose and not your parents as something big. Money is what is temporary; it is not what is always there. But there are many other factors like human relations, love, trust, knowledge, patriotism which are permanent and we must learn that these are the values through which one wins the world. This is an age which I enjoy as never before. Now life is not a humdrum affair, it is something more meaningful, more enjoyable and is a magnificent period of time. Now the works are not to satisfy the parents, not for good marks but to make this life safe ........(contd)

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